the blog

Short, plain writing on wanting the right things.

No headlines promising a new you by Monday. Just the questions worth sitting with.

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What you're actually afraid of when you say you want more

"More" is rarely the real request. Here's what's usually underneath it.
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practice

The discipline of doing less, on purpose

Restraint isn't the absence of ambition. It's ambition aimed correctly.
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How to tell if a goal is actually yours

A short, honest test you can run on anything you're chasing right now.